As I’ve said, it wasn’t until a long time afterwards–long after I’d left the Cottages–that I realized just how significant out little encounter in the churchyard had been. I was upset at the time, yes. But I didn’t believe it to be anything so different from other tiffs we’d had. It never occurred to me that our lives, until then so closely interwoven could unravel and separate over a thing like that. But the fact was, I suppose, there were powerful tides tugging us apart by then, and it only needed something like that to finish the task. If we’d understood that back then–who knows?–maybe we’d have kept a tighter hold of one another. Kazuo Ishiguro
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After the death of her beloved husband and children, Eliza and Harriet embark on a journey of self-discovery. They discover that their lives were intertwined and the loss of one would bring great pain to the other. The realization of this fact is what makes them realize that they should have been more cautious in the decisions they made around each other. If they had known what was to come, they would have been more cautious in their actions and relationships with one another.

Source: Never Let Me Go

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